10 thoughts on “How can I avoid the CSA?”

1. If you wish to attempt to avoid the CSA altogether, one of the best ways of doing it for non resident parents is to keep changing jobs. If you move around regularly, the CSA will struggle to track you down and will invariably give up.

   However, you will still be building up arrears while you are not paying, and that debt may stay with you if and when they eventually catch up with you. Also, do not tell the PWC where you are working as they could pass your details on.

2. use a condom or face up to your responsibilities

3. djdjdjdjd must be a woman to leave that comment

4. if you have a child you should pay for them, doesnt matter if the other half is being a cow and not letting you see them. otherwise spend that £2 on a box of condoms

5. @ Leuan Do you think you have the right to make judgemnts on people who are working themselves to death to give half there wage to CSA, These men on here dont have benefits to fall back on like mums do, they just get bled dry, the CSA are a law unto themselves and its true that many men have commited suicide because of this awful place, its nothing but a debt collection racket aimed at mums who popped out kids for the money,

6. My eldest is 18 in October and my youngest was 16 in January. I have never paid csa. I HAVE paid her 20% of my wages, which she has NEVER declared to the social. She is an oxygen thief, council estate, my children are my right to never work, scumbag and, i had paid for ALL of my children’s clothing, as their mother couldn’t even be bothered to buy shoelaces for my eldest one time. He had to walk around during the week till they came to stay on the Friday (till Monday morning every week since 2000).
   While i was a low earner, earning £150 after tax i gave her £30 p/w which i had to hand over before my sons were let out of her state paid for council house, or mother’s house, depending on if she’d dumped them so she could go out drinking/sl*gging it up. When i became an NVQ qualified tradesman i was earning £600 p/w so i gave her her 20%, yes £480 p/m tax free which she never declared.
   Yes i was a mug!
   She spent my eldests school trip to London money that i had paid by passing onto her, my mistake, which was the last time he would get to have a fun time with his school mates before moving onto secondary school. I found out when school phoned me saying he couldn’t go as i’d only paid the deposit. She got him to tell me he was scared of being blown up by suicide bombers.
   She’s not had a penny out of me since. Thats 8 (eight) years this July. She’s nothing but a scumbag! you women like her make me sick!
   When she moved in the man who she is now married to, my youngest was bullied by him. So i took him from her and got full custody 2008-2011. Then a few years later she wanted him back, as the eldest was about to leave school so benefits for him would stop. He’s 5 months off 18 and he’s been NEET since age of 14. She got my youngest back by lying to the judge saying i was violent. All the usual stuff you scumbags say.
   Not seen my lad since Feb 2011 because she won’t allow it and, my eldest since Sept 2009 as scumbag turned him against me by saying i did not care about him as i left him behind.

   Anyway thats my story. Now here’s the good bit……

   To keep the csa off my back, i returned the first few letters as ‘Not at this address’.

   When i moved in with my present partner, letters caught up with me. Was literally weeks. I hadn’t even filled in the electoral register. Scumbag had informed them of my move.

   So i wrote back to the csa claiming to be the representative of the LEGAL FICTION that they seek. Look into COMMON LAW. They didn’t seem to want to talk about what i had to say. They just demanded that i owed £3,000 + £10 p/w out of my giro. The credit crunch banking collapse had happened. I was briefly in receipt of JSA as Gormless Brown didn’t help out the construction industry.

   2010 i managed to get a PAYE factory job. The csa phoned me at work. I was called into reception to take the call. They would not tell me who they were until i confirmed my NAME and ADDRESS and DATE OF BIRTH. Once you confirm these you are ENTERING INTO A CONTRACT. This enables them to then COLLECT REVENUE FROM YOUR LEGAL FICTION. Seriously look into COMMON LAW. You’ll suddenly see STATUES and ACTS OF PARLIAMENT in a totally different light.
   I declined to tell her these until she told me who i was. She said data protection, i said freedom of information. She knew she wasn’t going to get anywhere with me. I gave her one more chance, she refused, i ended the call.

   More letters came. So as i was pretty annoyed i took the 2 letters that i received that day to the toilet with me. Yes i had a poo and wiped my bum with both and put them each in their return envelopes.

   I have never had another letter or phone call since.

   If you want to avoid the csa, just do what i did.

7. E2a…

   Before anyone calls me a runaway b**tard, the reason i left in the first place was that she had slept with 4 of my so called friends behind my back. Who in their right mind would stay after finding out that.
   When i knew there was never to be a future as a family, i went to my Doctor and had a vasectomy. I was 28. I have no intention of going through this again, EVER.

8. I love the fact most women always say “Use condoms if you don’t want the responsibility”

   Do women not have sexual education classes? have they never heard of contraception? Why do they always mention condoms?

   Also, do all men complain because they don’t want to pay? or mainly the fact how can you label 14%, 25% or 40% of your wage as how much to pay.

   does that mean children who receive £200 a month in payments will not survive as some may get £700?

   Where does that figure come from?

   Why can there not be an arrangement where costs of the children are added up at the end of the month i.e. receipts, and then each party are forced to pay 50%?

9. To those women who talk of condoms…..

   CLOSE YOUR LEGS!!!!!!

10. I had a few dates with a girl and then the old knee trembler followed one night and yes despite her telling me she couldn’t have children I irresponsibly arrived at my destination without a welly… she looked the part but by god she had the personality of a dead pig so she wasn’t for me. She come back saying she was pregnant and I should be a man and move her into my house. Yeah that sounded fabulous! Anyway when she didn’t get moved into my luxury house the fun began and the threats that she’s entitled to my house and money etc etc. I blocked her out until she weeded her way in to all of my family and I gave in very reluctantly and wary given her behaviour. So I did my duties and read there at the birth despite all I could think is leave the b*#ch unstitched back up. She behaved like we’d been in a 20 year loving marriage and it just confirmed what a bleedin lunatic she was. Anyway her and her mother insisted she moved in with me to “bond” bleedin bond my arse get a grip… NOOOOOO!! I’d have to sleep with one eye open ???? anyway shock horror she went crazy and stopped me seeing my child immediately… followed by the CSA hammering me for money despite immediately paying an agreed amount. Evidently the loon used my child and the CSA as a weapon. Anyway this type of behaviour carried on for nearly two years. It’s wholly dependant in which way the wind blows and one day I am the best father in the world then I’m the worse. Her evident bipolar was actually laughable and o never once engaged in her games. In a serious note she caused a lot of emotional upset when she would stop my parents seeing my daughter because they refused to ban me from their house when my daughter was there and visa versa when she’d demand I did the same… anyway it got worse and worse and I decided to sell up and make some changes.. just before my house sale complete she stopped me seeing my daughter again and then decided to tell me that she had changed my daughter name by deed pole and told them that I was AWOL… followed by a picture of the document. This was the icing on the cake so I stopped my standing order for Maintaince and quit my job and took off on a lifetime desire to live abroad. I have chosen to get out of that situation as the alternative is to get a gun and take the b#*tch off this planet and trust me I see why people loose it. So now I have gone awol and I’m living my life. I’m blocking out not seeing my daughter and I’m dealing with that in my own way but let me tell you something. Unless you are going through it you can’t judge. Every situation is so very different. Games, control, power and manipulation are not healthy for any child do stepping away isn’t a fault of the father. The CSA are a weapon for the mother FACT, the courts are a weapon for the mother FACT. The system is a huge failure in every way and that’s a bleedin FACT. Fathers that do the right thing, love their children and provide her treat like second class people and this damn system allows it. I have an account now for my daughter and one day she will get it. Maybe one day she will know why i stepped away and understand. As far as I’m concerned it better than the mental torcher and the risk of me doing something very silly and out of character to the mother. Yes I should have used a welly but I faced my responsibilities. I’ve never had a good old bonk without a welly since let me tell you. Good luck to anyone suffering from both perspectives and just remember there’s options to you

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